The mediator can't meet until mid May.  This is not acceptable to me.  So I fired back a terse email saying, "forget it then.  I'm done.  Get this deal to the lawyers, I want it signed off.  The SU is not going to change his behaviour or his mind when it comes to parenting so why am I wasting my time.  I can't wait til May or June for this deal to be done.  Do it now.  Forget I said anything."  
I rolled my eyes when I saw the email from the mediator's secretary saying mid May.  AS IF!!!  I am NOT happy with this.  The thing was drafted mid February - I sent along my minor changes and heard nothing til last week.  I am not impressed.  I will sign the thing and deal with whatever *my* issues are outside the agreement if I have to.
I want this man out of my house. Now. I am tired of the purgatory state of affairs and need to move along.
Learning to Drive a Whole New Way
3 years ago


3 comments:
AHallelujah !!!
Lily
Excellent! I hope that things will move at a quicker pace for you now and your agreement is signed soon.
It's time to get to work on figuring out what your new normal will be.
love and hugs,
~ b
Good for you!!
a 6 week wait is intolerable indeed.
Easter means new life. How appropriate is that timing?
~R
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