Mindless messes.

Cake mania is numbing my mind. I lost two bakeries by not watching where I was saving files and now have to get back up to speed. I am doing better with that game than with Diner Dash at level 43! sigh.

I believe I forgot to log off one of my email accounts this morning Rebel was rushing me out the door to one of her appointments. OY! It was at least the least worrisome of the accounts and most of the good stuff is hidden away. Me? If the SU left files open - I'd be in there checking things out. HIM? I don't know if he cares enough or is curious enough to snoop or not.

I am told by my girls that the SU is off to visit his folks mid July. NO discussion with me at all about this. I have already told him my plans to go visit my dad in August. We need to ensure one of us is around to take Rebel to appointments. I have yet to hear official dates etc for his leaving town. I have though, set up a couple of dinner parties with people I haven't seen in some time and will have these while he is not around.

Had a call from a mediator yesterday. 8:30 AM. WHO calls people at that time of the morning? I mean REALLY! She was telling me that the SU is rarin to get going. AS IF! I told her I was off work on stress leave until mid July and that frankly, given all *we* had been through, I needed a mental break before starting up on this crap again. ( My personal plan was for late September) She had no idea what I was talking about. The SU - in his great communicator mode- neglected to inform said mediator about our recent ordeal with the REBEL. After I told her there was a couple of seconds of silence at the other end and she did say to me that when I was ready and not before would be just fine. Of course SU wants things done on his schedule while he is off work for the summer. That's nice. But too damn bad. I will not ruin my summer dealing with his needs or wants. He can wait and take time off work in the fall like the rest of us do. If he doesn't like this, well, I guess he can start without me.

It's the weekend. I have already cracked open a nice white zin for the evening! After my walk of course.