13 things I am worrying about
when it comes time to mediate:
- Spouse will fight about who gets the house.
- Spouse will fight about where the girls, particularly Tweeny, will spend the majority of their time.
- Spouse will fight about getting access to my investments.
- Spouse won't leave when asked.
- Spouse WILL leave when asked but will leave all his crap behind for me to clean up.
- Spouse will want to move faster than I am ready to move.
- Spouse will impose himself on my party even if I ask him not to.
- Spouse's family will hate my guts.
- Spouse's family will blame me 100%.
- Spouse will start drinking again.
- Spouse will behave like a RAMB during mediation but still refuse counselling.
- Spouse will behave very well during mediation and that will cause me to wonder what he really wants.
- Spouse will walk away from everything as if the past 24 years never happened.
Regardless of what the Spouse does or says, I WILL be fine. I can control what I can control. I need to change my thought patterns and create a positive vibe rather than this worrying vibe.
Besides, I have a party to get ready for. It's in exactly
ONE WEEK!
30 people have said they are coming!
Party like it's 1999!!
7 comments:
yeah, and I'm sure you could have come up with 13 MORE!
BTW, What's a RAMB?
T.I.M.
LOO RAMB - an acroynm 'we" made up when we were all on the divorce busting board...
Rata$$moronba$tard
and you're right... I probably could... but... what would be the point?
thanks for the note!
M
an acroynm 'we" made up when we were all on the divorce busting board
and a great acronym it is!
~ blondie
Yep, Marie made it up and it's so applicable!
And Marie, you DO realize you have no control over what your RAMB does? I mean, I know you SAID you do, but do you? Do I have to put on my moderator's hat and get out the 2x4's????
LOL!!! No.... I DO get it.. really. A year of therapy .... twice.... four years apart has taught me I can only deal with my own stuff. I can *understand* his stuff (or not) and know why or what he is doing... but I canNOT do anything about it. His shit - his problem. I can only do what I can do. That doesn't always make it any easier, but at least I don't have to try and *fix* it, because I know I can't. And he won't.
*whew* I'm glad I didn't have to put on that hat here!!!! I figured you got it, but wanted to be sure.
Wow, that's a lot to worry about. I say just focus on your party for now and forget about the RAMB!
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